Curb your impatience – If you’re like me you want what you want when you want it. When it comes to texting someone you’re interested in though try and curb your impatience. Show some self-restraint and understand he may not think texting is as an important a medium as you do. Rather, match his interest and hold back from texting him.
Text back only when he does – Let him take the lead. You need to set the stage for the type of relationship you would like to have with him later. If you’re the one constantly texting him and showing need, then this will continue into whatever relationship you create with him. Make sure you text ONLY when he does and it wouldn’t hurt to forget to text back every once in a while.
Never chase a guy over text – Probably the biggest mistake we women make not only texting guys but in creating relationships with them. Have you ever been super assertive with a guy and had him reciprocate your interest? Probably not. The reason why is because this is a male role, not a females role. If you are the one chasing him over text or in person he sits back and lets you do all the work, then he does his best to sleep with you and disappears shortly after. Don’t do this, don’t chase him over text or any other medium.
Don’t allow sexting – Men filter women via sext talk. Is she sex material or relationship material? If you respond overtly with sexual texting, guess what category you fall into? Resting in the relationship area does two positive things: you’re taken more seriously and pushed into the relationship category and believe it or not, sexual tension is built by resisting his dirty texting desires.